Lots of changes since I last wrote. Hip surgery has taken me out of doing full triathlons, but I can still do aquabikes or relays. I'm still in the game, so to speak :).
I revisited the Patriot Triathlon this weekend and reconnected with lots of old friends. The following day I connected with more friends that resulted in a ride in a hot air balloon. This made me realize that our connections with our friends are significant boons to our quality of life. Who didn't know that, eh?
As I've mentioned, there are times I like to just go places and hang out, for no specific purpose other than to be. One of the places I go often, I decided to engage with people there. I'm happy being cool by myself, but sometimes the experience can really be enhanced by making those connections. It was definitely so this weekend.
So on a couple of social networking sites, I like to write some very obscure words to some very deep meanings. Usually I'm so obscure that only a few people that think like me understand what I mean. My old writing teachers would tell me I'm failing to communicate, and they would be right. However, sometimes that obscurity becomes an avenue for others to share what the words mean to them, and that can have some outstanding results. Here's an example:
I wrote the words "Dogs dig, it's what they do. Think big."
This actually came from a discussion with my daughter who asked how she can get her dog to stop digging. I gave her alot of silly answers before revealing my opinion that digging is just what dogs do; accept it because you can't change it.
I thought on those words a bit, at first because they just sounded cool. But, I had to add the "think big" part because there's more to us than just cliche sayings. Accepting that a dog will dig no matter what you do can be applied to the much larger universe of all things that we should learn to accept. Using the "dog" metaphor helps to communicate that all those things we need to learn to accept, are probably pretty ok (because dogs are, right?). Finally, "think big" by spending your time on those things that really can be changed or deserve your attention.
So a friend of mine reacts to these words in a way that expresses his love for his family and his opportunity to influence the environment that impacts his family. It was very comforting to see his application of my obscure words to his world, and get an insight into his perspective.
What does all this rambling mean? It means you're cool, so am I, and we're going to be ok.